Monthly Archives: March 2007

Rest In Peace, Jason Kendall "Rameses" Ray

Please continue to pray for the family and friends of Jason as well as the entire UNC Tarheel family who were touched so much by him during his time here on earth.

Jason Ray, Tar Heel Mascot, Succumbs To Accident Injuries

March 26, 2007

CHAPEL HILL – Jason Kendall Ray, 21, died this morning (Monday, March 26) at Hackensack (N.J.) University Medical Center. Ray, a senior at the University of North Carolina, was a member of UNC’s cheerleading squad and was injured in a pedestrian/vehicle accident in Fort Lee, N.J., on Friday, March 23. He was pronounced dead by doctors at 8:38 a.m.

Ray was in New Jersey to perform as the Tar Heels’ mascot, Rameses, in the NCAA Men’s Basketball East Regional in East Rutherford, N.J., on Friday and Sunday. Dozens of family and friends gathered at the hospital’s Surgical Intensive Care Unit since the accident.

“Our family would like to thank the staff at Hackensack University Medical Center for the compassionate and professional care they provided,” says Jason’s brother, Allen, speaking on behalf of the family. “They made this terrible experience as tolerable as possible and gave solace to our family. “We would also like to thank the UNC athletic department. Jason was a member of their family and they extended their support to us and provided support to our family as we have dealt with this terrible loss.

“Jason was a wonderful son, brother and friend. He leaves behind a legacy of friendship, laughter, excitement for life and a genuine love for all the people he touched during his all-too-short life.”

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to the Jason Kendall Ray Memorial Fund, Concord Christian Church, 3101 Davidson Highway, Concord, NC 28027.

“Jason believed in organ donation and in the sharing of the gift of life,” Allen Ray says. “His organs will be donated to the Sharing Network of New Jersey. We hope that Jason’s gift will be able to help up to 50 people in critical need of transplant.”

“This is a devastating loss to the Ray family and our University community,” says Director of Athletics Dick Baddour. “Jason had many talents. Over the last several days, we have heard from so many people who said Jason went above the call of duty to brighten their days and make their child smile and laugh. He may have performed in the anonymity that comes with playing the mascot, but his life has had an overt and lasting impact on the people whose lives he touched. Our hearts and prayers again go out to his family and friends in this time of extraordinary grief.”

Jason was majoring in business administration with a concentration in marketing at UNC’s Kenan-Flagler Business School and was working toward a minor in religious studies. He had played the Ram mascot for the past three seasons.

“Jason gave Rameses an energy that was unique,” says UNC cheerleading coach Brown Walters. “He embodied all of the qualities you would want in a team member. He was a tremendous ambassador of the University of North Carolina and that spirit will live on forever. The Carolina Spirit Program has lost a member of our family and he will be deeply missed.”

“The loss of Jason Ray will be felt by all of us who love and care about Carolina,” says Chancellor James Moeser. “His legacy will be one of caring and joy, of hard work and enthusiasm for life. Susan and I join his friends, classmates, teammates and instructors, people across the campus and far beyond Chapel Hill in wishing his family comfort during this time of profound loss.”

“My heart goes out to Jason’s family,” says Carolina basketball coach Roy Williams. “He was an engaging young man and a friend to a number of our players and managers. They tell me he was a wonderful person. Obviously our team is disappointed with the outcome of Sunday’s game, but that pales greatly in comparison with the loss the Ray family is dealing with today. We ask everyone to remember Jason and his family in their prayers.”


Please Pray

The doctors say that there’s no hope beyond intervention from God, and as a believer, I know how that works, so please pray for this young man who appears to have such a great future ahead of him but may never get to see it. There are two articles here: (1) from ESPN and (2) from the UNC Athletics website.

Family, friends hold bedside vigil for Ray

Associated Press
HACKENSACK, N.J. — More than two dozen of Jason Ray’s family and close friends were at his hospital bedside Sunday, holding a vigil as the University of North Carolina mascot lay gravely injured after being hit by an SUV.

The 21-year-old senior remained on life support and in extremely critical condition
Sunday, two days after he was run down near his hotel in Fort Lee. Ray, who suited up as UNC’s ram mascot, Rameses, was in New Jersey for the NCAA men’s basketball tournament, a portion of which is being played at the Continental Airlines Arena in East Rutherford.

Ray’s father, Emmitt, who flew to New Jersey in a friend’s private plane after getting word of his son’s life-threatening head injuries on Friday, said doctors hold out little hope for his son’s recovery “short of the intervention of the Lord.”

The UNC mascot had run out to get a burrito and a coke at a nearby convenience store Friday afternoon, and was walking back to his hotel along Route 4 when he was struck from behind by an SUV. The driver stopped immediately to call 911. No charges have been filed.

Ray’s top-seeded Tar Heels were facing Georgetown Sunday at 5 p.m. for a spot in the coveted Final Four. It was to be Ray’s chance to entertain his biggest crowd ever.

“We’ve known Jason since he was 11 years old — he is an awesome kid,” said Jodi Stewart, a neighbor of the Ray family who attends the same church in Concord, N.C.
“I never knew a kid who was more full of life. He was excited every day. He loved what he was doing, he loved God, his family, and being the school’s mascot. We have not given up hope.”

Stewart said about 30 of Ray’s family and friends were at Hackensack University Medical Center Sunday, including his parents, Emmitt and Charlotte Ray, two brothers, and five high school friends who lived with Ray in Chapel Hill, N.C. Two students wearing UNC sweat shirts on the hospital grounds declined to speak with a reporter Sunday afternoon.

Stewart said the Rays had Jason when they were in their 40s, and devoted a lot of time to their son. “They cherish this boy. You cannot put into words what this child means to them,” she said. “Jason is their life. They live their life for him.”

Stewart said Ray was an Eagle scout and was involved in his church. While in high school at Jay M. Robinson High School in Concord, Ray was often seen cheering in the stands at basketball games, she said.

Ray’s dad told The Star-Ledger that his son “absolutely loved” dressing up as Rameses, despite the costume’s bulk. “It was his way of supporting the team,” said Emmitt Ray. “There are things you just can’t explain,” he continued. “He just happened to be in the wrong place at the right time. He wasn’t doing anything he wasn’t supposed to be doing. He was 200 yards from the hotel.”

Police said Gagik Hovsepyan, 51, driver who hit Ray, had a valid driver’s license and did not appear to be under the influence of alcohol or drugs. His son was asleep in the
SUV at the time, police said.

At 6-foot-5, Jason Ray was such a commanding presence that when UNC Coach Roy Williams first met him in the campus gym, he wondered aloud why Ray wasn’t on his team. “I’m too slow and I can’t jump,” Jason told Williams. “But I can be of assistance in other ways, coach.”

Ray was to graduate in May with a 3.6 GPA, majoring in business administration with a minor in religion. He had a sales and marketing job lined up in nearby Raleigh, N.C.

Lucas: Tears For A Ram

March 24, 2007
By Adam Lucas

When you’re in the mascot business, you’re used to giving, not receiving.

Give a high five. Give a hug. Give a smile.

Calling it a “business” is a bit misleading, of course. That implies that it’s somehow lucrative. It’s not. Being a mascot falls in the same category as being a band member or cheerleader–you’re part of the integral fabric of college sports, but no one notices you unless they have a complaint.

But at least a trumpet player or a tumbler can show his face. When you’re a mascot, you learn to see the world through two small eye holes. You have to speak only with your gestures. It’s hot in there–really, really hot.

Jason Ray travels with the tools of his trade in a black trash bag. That’s how he walked into the North Carolina Children’s Hospital last fall. He looked like just another tall guy in a Carolina windsuit. There were plenty of them around, because the football team was making its regular pre-home game Friday visit to the hospital. At that moment, tall guys in Carolina windsuits were the rule, not the exception.

But what was that big, bulky thing in his bag?

“Hey,” he said. “Do you know if there’s a place where I can change?”

Ten minutes later, Ray was gone. Rameses had appeared. He’d put on the costume he carried in the bag, including the enormous head, and proceeded to do exactly what Rameses always does–make people smile. Kids smiled. Parents smiled. Even a few football players smiled.

If you’re a parent of a small child, you know that the only thing more entertaining than Tyler Hansbrough for them at a Carolina game is the sight of the ram. My kids are no different. They can be in the middle of a full-scale meltdown, and three simple words will snap them back to rapt attention:

“Where’s the ram?”

He might be getting passed through the student section. Or maybe he’s over there directing the band. Whatever he’s doing, they love it. One of my favorite pictures of my daughter, McKay, is her sitting on the steps at a women’s basketball game, shoulder-to-shoulder with Rameses. He looks gargantuan. She looks tiny. I like to think of both of them that way.

As a daddy, there is nothing better than making your kids laugh. So this is an enormous admission: Rameses can make them laugh even better than me. He runs out of the tunnel, he dances like the Blues Brothers, and sometimes he even sits down on press row and slums with the media. Look at the picture, but don’t look at the giant ram. Look at the smiles of the faces on the people around him.

If you’re a parent, this is the kind of day you dread. Rameses is going to be on the news frequently in the days to come as more news trickles out about the car accident in New Jersey that placed him in critical condition. His parents arrived last night and his brother flew in from Colorado.

What do you say when your kids ask you why Rameses is on TV? Mascots don’t get hurt. Not like this. And neither should college kids.

You watched one Carolina team squeeze out a victory last night in the Sweet 16. They flew to New Jersey on a plane packed with other essential members of the traveling parties–associate athletic directors, band members, cheerleaders. And the ram.

Without a mascot–no, that’s not it, they were without a team member–the cheerleaders were given the option of cheering at the game last night. They chose to do it, and to watch them you would have never known what they knew. In order to make sure all parties had been informed, Carolina didn’t confirm the accident until the second half of the basketball game. Even before then, though, there was no outward sign of distress from the cheerleaders. They were as professional as amateurs (that’s what we all are here, even the players) can be.

Until you ran into them immediately after the game in a Meadowlands hallway. It wasn’t the looks on their faces that were most telling. It was the fact that almost every single one of them was on a cell phone. They were trying to get news, trying to relay news, trying to find out what they had missed during the three hours they were on the court.

Communication, of course, is one of the hardest parts of being a mascot. That fall day at the Children’s Hospital, Ray–as Rameses–walked up to me. His big paw was grasping a folded piece of paper, and he was making a motion I didn’t understand.

I eventually figured out he wanted me to hold the paper for him until the event was over. Once all the kids had been hugged and the last picture had been taken, Rameses finally disappeared…and Jason Ray reappeared.

“Thanks for holding that picture,” he said. As he unfolded it, he proudly displayed a child’s drawing of Rameses.

“I’d like to take this with me, if that’s OK,” he told the program coordinator. “One of the patients gave it to me.”

Then he walked out, big bulky trash bag in one hand, picture in the other. It was the perfect portrait of someone who had spent most of the day giving…and unexpectedly received something, too.

Can I Have This Dance For the Rest of My Life?

This is without a doubt my favorite sports related days of the entire year. Everyone today has a 0-0 record and anyone can win. ANYONE!! I agree with some that one of these days a 16 seed is going to beat a #1. I just don’t know when it’ll be. Maybe this year…maybe not. We’ll see. Until then, let’s fill that dance card all the way to April 2nd.

Welcome to the World, Jilian Kay

Jilian Kay was born to my friends Anita and Tom on Friday, March 9, 2007 at 5:19pm weighing 6lbs 14 oz and 19 inches long.

Is this girl beautiful or what!!!! She is breathtakingly beautiful if you ask me and THANKFULLY looks very much like her mother except for the dark hair, which she gets from her proud papa.

Live From New York…

It just keeps getting better and better this offseason despite my anxiety and nerves about free agency. I keep trying to remind myself that Pro Football is a business and though I love my boys, some of them won’t be my boys next season. In any case, the entertainment world (or the brilliant minds at NBC, whichever you choose to believe) has brought us this for late night on March 24th:

Colts Quarterback to Host Saturday Night Live
INDIANAPOLIS – Since being named the Most Valuable Player of Super Bowl XLI, Colts quarterback Peyton Manning has received many offers for appearances.

Manning, the NFL’s Most Valuable Player in 2003 and 2004, said this week that on March 24 – his 31st birthday – he will host Saturday Night Live, NBC’s long-running sketch-comedy show.

“I figure this is my one shot to be asked (to host the program),” Manning told media Wednesday night at the premiere of the Colts’ Super Bowl DVD, “2006 Indianapolis Colts Super Bowl XLI Champions.”

“I figure it ought to be fun.”

I may be the only one (and I don’t really care if I am), but this is marked on my calendar! You think they can get him to bring out the Tango?

For a funny take on what could be in store for Peyton on SNL read this article on the

The Not Ready for Prime Time QB

No…Football season never ends here at Leann’s Random Thoughts as I take the same approach as the NFL Network…Football 24/7.

  • 8 weeks until the Draft
  • 4 months until Training Camp starts
  • 23 weeks until the 2007 Hall of Fame enshrinement and game (Steelers vs. Saints)